An advent calendar you earn: one small self-care treat for every December day you keep your habit. Pick up to three daily habits, edit or shuffle the 25 treats, then print a one-page calendar for December 1 to 24 (or 25). Free, no sign-up.
Most December goals pay off in January or later, which is too far away to keep you going on a dark Tuesday evening. In a 2018 study by Kaitlin Woolley and Ayelet Fishbach, people rewarded straight after a task enjoyed it more and kept at it longer than people who got the same reward later. An advent calendar is that idea with a door per day: the habit is what opens it, so the treat stays tied to the thing you're trying to keep.
| Free | Under $5 | Cosy and seasonal |
|---|---|---|
| A long bath or shower with music | A new tea or hot chocolate | A Christmas film under a blanket |
| An hour with no phone | A face mask | Watch the lights in your neighbourhood |
| A lie-in | Fresh flowers | Bake something with a friend |
| Call someone you miss | A coffee out, alone, with a book | Make a playlist for the holidays |
| A walk somewhere new | A candle | Write cards to three people |
| Read in bed for an hour | Fancy socks | A winter market or fair |
| An evening of a game you love | A magazine | Hot drink and a walk in the cold |
| Nap without guilt | A new pen or notebook | Wrap presents with a film on |
| Journal for 20 minutes | A pastry from the good bakery | Look back on three good things from this year |
| Stretch or yoga video | Lip balm or hand cream | Build a blanket fort, even as an adult |
| Library trip | A song or album you've wanted | Decorate one corner of your room |
| Clear one drawer, then stop | A plant | An ice-skating session |
| Phone-free breakfast | Bath salts | A cosy dinner you love cooking |
| A podcast walk | A puzzle book | Hot chocolate with all the toppings |
| Sunrise or sunset outside | A digital wallpaper from an artist you like | A carol concert or choir video |
| Do nothing for 15 minutes | A single nice chocolate | Plan one thing to look forward to in January |
| Rewatch a favourite episode | A postcard to yourself | Light a candle and read |
| Draw or doodle | A bunch of clementines | A slow morning, no alarm |
| Sort this year's photos for 20 minutes | Hair oil | Christmas Eve: your favourite of the month |
| Early night with clean sheets | An app or game you've wanted | Christmas Day: something you've saved up for |
More ideas, sorted by cost: 70 ways to reward yourself. Like drawing from a jar instead? See reward jar ideas for adults. Want treats you choose on bad days? Build a dopamine menu.
December is short on daylight and long on parties, so pick habits that take 15 minutes or less and survive a late night: a 15-minute walk, 10 pages, drinking water before the first coffee, a 10-minute tidy, phone out of the bedroom, three good things written down. If you want a full self-care routine rather than one habit, the self-care checklist maker builds one by area. Running a longer stretch to the end of the year? The winter arc tracker goes to December 31.
Paper calendars stay at home. Habit Rewards works the same way all year: every habit you check off earns coins, and you spend them on rewards you list and price yourself, from a hot chocolate to the thing you're saving up for. Your streak shows how many days in a row you've kept up; on a day you can't, a Skip costs 10 coins and keeps the streak alive. It's free on iPhone and Android for up to 3 habits.
When should I start? On December 1. If you find this later, start on today's door and leave the earlier ones empty: the point is the days ahead, not catching up.
24 or 25 days? Traditional advent calendars run from December 1 to Christmas Eve. Pick 25 if you want a door for Christmas Day.
Can I make one for my kids? Yes: one habit (teeth, tidy toys, reading), a parent writes the treats, and the reward is small and immediate. The chore chart with rewards works for the rest of the year.
Rather track it on your phone? In Habit Rewards every check-off earns coins, and you spend them on rewards you set yourself. Free on iPhone and Android for up to 3 habits.
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